How to dress over 50

How to dress over 50

Reaching your fifties prompts a natural reassessment of various aspects of life. Whether it's career paths or personal relationships, Gransnet Talk Forums offer support for those contemplating changes.

What about fashion for the over 50 crowd? While your sense of style might have been well-defined in earlier decades, reaching this milestone age brings new considerations. Factors like menopause and changes in body shape can alter how certain outfits feel.

However, the message isn't to give up on staying fashionable after 50. Quite the contrary, actually. Numerous celebrities like Jennifer Aniston, Halle Berry, Thandie Newton, and JoLo continually set high standards for style. Plus, celebrating her fiftieth birthday in April 2024, fashion icon Victoria Beckham offers inspiration.

Considering all this, discussions on style trends in our Style and Beauty forum naturally delve into what to wear, and what to avoid, as one ages. Amidst some controversial advice, the question arises: what's the real key to dressing well in your fifties?

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Fashion Tips for Over 50s: What to Avoid

1. Say No to Shapeless Skirts

If you're on the hunt for a chic skirt for a 50-year-old woman, whether it's for the office or leisure, opt for sleek and well-fitted styles and steer clear of anything dowdy or shapeless. Think more Kate Moss than Maggie Thatcher, as one Gransnetter wisely suggests.

Avoid tweed skirt suits paired with lace-up brogues and steer clear of anything made of crimplene.

First and foremost, understand your body shape. If you have a pear or hourglass figure, consider midaxi lengths or knee-length pencil skirts that accentuate your curves in all the right places while offering coverage for your knees if needed.

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For apple-shaped figures, opt for high-waisted or A-line skirts to create balance by emphasizing your waistline.

For evening wear, a pleated skirt with some sparkle from retailers like John Lewis can be a great choice. Dealing with menopause-related bloating? Look for wrap skirts or stretchy fabrics.

And if you adore your legs and want to flaunt them in a mini skirt, go for it! Age is just a number, and there are no strict rules when it comes to dressing for yourself.

"When you’re over 50 and styling a skirt, the right shoes and tops are crucial. A classic white t-shirt or a sleek knit? Perfect. Always tuck your top into your waistband to define your silhouette and avoid looking shapeless.

A moderate mid-heel can elevate your occasion wear skirts, while trainers pair well with daytime skirts—think pristine tennis shoes, not sweaty sneakers. Opt for opaque tights for a modern look rather than flesh-colored stockings, and whatever you do, skip the pop socks."

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2. Avoid Fleeces

While the appeal of a cosy fleece jacket for outdoor activities like gardening and hiking is undeniable, wearing it beyond these contexts might not be the wisest choice, according to Gransnetters.

Sure, fleece jackets are perfect for walking the dogs or braving winter chills, but when they start making appearances during social outings or dinners with friends, it might be time to reconsider your wardrobe selections.

As Gransnetter TeeTime aptly puts it: “I really don't like fleeces anyway but have two microfleeces for golf- once they have worn out I won't be buying anymore. I always remember Trinny and Susannah saying the only being a fleece looked good on was a sheep.”

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Some environmentally conscious GNers have also shifted away from fleece jackets to minimize the shedding of harmful microfibers into the environment. So, both for your style and the planet's sake, it's worth reassessing your fleece habit. Opt instead for a chic, relaxed cardigan—preferably longline—or a structured 'coatigan' for more formal occasions.

When selecting coats, stick to neutral colors that can be easily paired with any outfit, and choose classic styles with attention to tailoring and fit. Coats with a slightly cinched waist and longer length offer a flattering silhouette. Avoid hooded duffle coats for a more mature, versatile outerwear option, as their peg buttons and boxy shape can give off a juvenile vibe, which is likely not what you're aiming for.

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3. Conceal Elasticated Waistbands

While elasticated waistbands offer comfort and accommodate weight fluctuations, they've historically carried a bit of a stigma. However, nowadays, with athleisure becoming mainstream attire for women of all ages, elasticated waistbands are no longer considered a fashion faux pas.

That said, it's best to avoid leaving the waistband exposed. As one Gransnetter wisely suggests: "I think elasticated or half-elasticated waistbands are a boon for those of us with less-than-svelte figures - but they must not be visible!"

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Concealing the waistline of your trousers is easily achieved by tucking your top in and then slightly pulling it out to cover the band in a casual, slouchy manner. This not only hides the waistband but also creates definition at the waist. If you're sporting leggings, opt for a longline tunic top that covers your waistband, bottom, and thighs for a polished look.

When seeking an everyday fashion staple that isn't jeans, a durable denim skirt is a reliable choice. The versatility of denim allows it to be dressed up or down for any weather.

However, it's essential to proceed with caution when selecting denim skirts, as cautioned by one Gransnetter:

“One of the most unattractive styles are long jean skirts...they don't hide a thing. They just make you look large ALL the way down."

To shine in denim, it's crucial to find the right cut for your body shape. Some denim skirts can be as clingy and uncomfortable as their trouser counterparts, depending on their tightness.

While denim skirts have been a staple for decades, denim midaxi styles are currently in vogue. Consider exploring M&S’s stylish black cotton denim midaxi for inspiration; pair it with chunky boots from Clarks and a cozy cashmere-like knit from M&S for the epitome of off-duty style.

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What to Wear Over 50: Love Leggings

Leggings are a beloved choice for their comfort, ease of wear, and versatility, making them a staple across all age groups, including those over 50. However, it's crucial to remember the golden rule: leggings are not trousers. To style leggings appropriately, consider pairing them with longer length shirts and tunics, with brands like White Stuff and M&S offering flattering options.

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What to Wear Over 50: Find the Perfect Pair of Jeans

Let's face it, regardless of age or body shape, finding the ideal pair of jeans can be a challenge. As one frustrated Gransnetter confesses on this Style and Beauty thread: “My wardrobe is full of expensive jeans-buying mistakes.”

But don't despair. With a bit of patience and exploration, you're bound to discover a pair that suits your style and figure. Once you find jeans that fit you well, you'll have a versatile wardrobe essential at your disposal.

It's beneficial to have a variety of jeans styles in your collection for different occasions and levels of comfort. Girlfriend or boyfriend jeans are perfect for casual outings or lounging at home, while high-waisted mom jeans from Marks & Spencer are currently trending.

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Mom jeans in M & S are new, well new to me at any rate, and seem to be a good fit. They are high waist and taper which might suit you. Worth a try anyway.” - Daisymae

For evenings out, opt for slim-fit jeans in a dark color with a hint of stretch for added elegance. Consider trying Robell Slim Fit jeans, available on Amazon, as recommended by Gransnetter Lucca: “V expensive but Robell stretchy jeans are great - I’ve had a pair for four years."

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What to Wear Over 50: Dresses with Sleeves

If you're confident in showcasing your arms, follow the lead of Michelle Obama and opt for sleeveless dresses designed to highlight toned biceps.

However, if you prefer dresses with sleeves, there are plenty of options available. Whether you prefer full-length or cap sleeves, there's a style to suit your preference.

"My dream dress (manufacturers please note) is an empire line, V-neck, 3/4 sleeves in fine jersey - plain or print."

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A shirt dress from Next is versatile for both casual and formal occasions, whether you're working or enjoying drinks with friends. Wrap dresses are universally flattering as they conceal any areas you'd rather not draw attention to - Love and Roses offer flattering styles in beautiful prints.